ESFP

The Outgoing Performer

Happy-go-lucky, friendly , easygoing
Happiest when with others
Love the spotlight
Active and talkative
Love going outside and enjoys a variety of sensory experiences
Naturally curious
Fully focused on the present
Likes physical and hands-on activities
Likes to collect things
Have good fashion taste
Observant and sensitive to other’s emotions
Enjoy doing unexpected and nice things for other people
Love surprises
Flexible and spontaneous
Impulsive and reactive
Disorganised and have no sense of structure , hates to stick to plans/be boxed in

Bold – They want to experience everything there is to experience, and don’t mind stepping out of their comfort zones to do so.
Original – they love to experiment with new styles and constantly find new ways to stand out.
Practical – to them, the world is meant to be felt and experienced, and they prefer to go out there to see and do things.
Observant – they are naturals when it comes to noticing real, tangible things & changes.
Excellent people skills – they are talkative , witty & almost never run out of things to discuss.

Sensitive – they are strongly emotional , and vulnerable to criticism.
Conflict – averse - they sometimes ignore and avoid conflict entirely.
Easily bored – without constant excitement, they find ways to create it themselves. They also prefer pleasures of the moment over long-term plans.
Poor long term planners – they rarely make plans for the future.
Unfocused – they dislike anything that requires long-term dedication and focus.

Joyful, delightful people with an excitement for life and have solid personal values
Can be great friends, fun-loving and involved parents, energetic and cooperative team members
Usually willing to jump in and do whatever it takes to help others in real and tangible ways
Grow up to trust their own competence to make decisions and temper their need for adventure and instant gratification
Look inward for confirmation to resist temptations around them and find a life of meaning and joy

Always cuddly, happy, smiley babies
Alert, active and social infants who love going places in their strollers or interacting with people or animals
Usually bouncy, wiggly, playful young children who thrive on fun, variety and surprises
Very friendly and outgoing , willing and eager to get involved in new social situations
Warm and loving children who make deep attachments to their parents and siblings
Like physical affection
Happiest when they are outside, playing with other children
Demonstrate excellent hand-eye coordination even from very early ages, like throwing, bouncing balls
Like tiny toys, dolls , collecting stuff , sorting games and tools of all kinds
Notice and remember visual details like colour, shapes or the position of objects they have seen
Like sensory play
Love music – singing and dancing , find making noise and commotion fun and entertaining
Sensitive to the feelings of others, do not like conflict or tension
Constantly noticing the environment and the world around them
Open and willing to try new things

Eager for the new experience and excited about making new friends
Usually well liked by their peers and adored by their teachers for their happy-go-lucky attitude
Do best in grades where they have a special relationship with the teacher, and there is a lot of action, discussion, and movement in the classroom
Very observant, tend to be visual learners
Have a good sense of color and enjoy matching colors in their clothing
Have a keen eye for fashion
Selective about their preferences for their senses
Enjoy hands on learning of all kinds
Have excellent memories for things they have personally witnessed
Like sports of some kind and esp enjoy the relationships and action of team sports
Often coordinated and agile children
Warm and caring team members
Love having money to spend and enjoy shopping, happy to spend money on others as well
Generous, adore surprises and delight in doing special things to surprise the people they love
Eager and ready to help others
Have a good sense of humour, love to make others laugh
Don’t usually mind being teased

Find school increasingly difficult and frustrating
Hard to grasp the underlying meaning
Need to be shown the steps to get to the answer
Want to learn a subject that has practical application and real utility
Social activities take precedence over time present with their families
Popular and have a big circle of friends
Respond best to immediate and very predictable consequences
May get hurt by thoughtless or cruel comments of friends
May spend so much time helping their friends that they neglect their own duties
Sometimes impressed by the more superficial attributes like good looks or money and may place their trust in people not worthy of it
May indulge in drugs or early sex
May get distracted and forget commitments
Have trouble holding on to their money or saving it

- Need to feel free to learn and explore about the world around them

-Help them find constructive and positive outlets for their energy

- Build an capable and competent image of themselves

- Communicate unconditional love towards them

- Need help to see that they do not need to settle for anything less than loyal, dependable and genuine people