INFJ

The Kind Mystic

Creative- they use their creativity to resolve problems and create authentic artworks.
Insightful – they are able to see connections between people and events easily.
Inspiring & convincing – they often inspire those around them to be better with their warmth and genuine inner strength.
Decisive – they are able to complete the goals they set with great planning skills and conviction.
Determined & passionate – when they come to believe that something is important , they pursue that goal with great conviction & energy .
Altruistic – they are always eager to help those in need, and cannot bear to see others suffer.

Sensitive – they are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict.
Extremely private – they rarely truly open up to others, even to close friends.
Perfectionistic – they often ignore reality and their own limits, always striving to do their best in everything.
Too idealistic - if the reality contradicts their ideals, they will get angry and frustrated.
Can burn out easily – they are likely to exhaust themselves if they don’t find a way to balance their ideals with their daily lives.

At their best

Always guided by their beliefs and values
Highly responsible and moral people
Will work tirelessly to accomplish their goals
Caring and loving adults and inspirational leaders
Have artistic spirits and idealistic hearts
When encouraged to stick to their beliefs and to learn to assert themselves, they will bravely follow their vision and pursue their personal growth and empowerment for themselves and those around them.

Cuddly, loving babies who are usually cheerful and warm at home but can be serious and quiet out in the world.
Often are polite children
Spend much of their time inside their own heads, may seem detached from the real world
Like to play with one friend at a time and prefer talking to other gentle children
Prefer to sit and talk with someone in a close , intimate way instead of running wildly
Can tire easily from too much social interactions and need time to return to their internal world of ideas and fantasy
Curious about what things mean and ask many ‘why’ questions
Have vivid imaginations and are fascinated with things out of the ordinary
Tenderhearted and highly sensitive children
Quietly nurturing of the people they love
Value harmony in all of their relationships
Deeply affected by the sufferings of others
Comfortable with routine and like order around them
Often ask the plan for the day and like to help make decisions about it
Tend to be upset with sudden changes

Love learning, eager to learn as much as they can
Quietly friendly children , continue to prefer one on one interactions
Well liked by most of their peers for their quiet strength, sincerity and integrity even though they are quiet
May be selective about their relationships, but form lasting relationships with the people they are close to
Great readers, with good tastes and interests, and may esp enjoy myths, fairy tales and other fantasy stories
Love any activity related to reading, writing , creative expressions, the arts, music and learning about people in different cultures.
Will avoid showing their creative writing or drawing to anyone until its finished
Like philosophical or ethical discussions
Able to grasp complex concepts quickly
Like to brainstorm possible outcomes and future scenarios and are driven to try to understand big, philosophical issues and topics
Enjoy creating things out of other things
Great leaders (have good ideas and care about member’s feelings )
Very idealistic , guided by their deeply felt sense of right and wrong
Their sensitivity and concern about those they love, develops into strong convictions and beliefs

This time can be hard for them because they are uncomfortable with the external world
The teen years may bring an increase in self-confidence and a greater willingness to engage in highly public activities, but they continue to hate being the center of attention
Still love being a part of any creative process
Focus on the future and what they will choose to do for work, may be confused and conflicted about making career choices
Have a strong desire to do creative and meaningful work and find it hard to imagine themselves in a traditional or business setting, want to do something that is meaningful to them and the world

May need extra support, reassurance and love from their parents to build an inner sense of confidence and self-esteem
Appreciate their uniqueness and their original ideas
Thrive in a creative and open-ended environment where they feel free and encouraged to explore and produce their vision of how things might be
Need gentle guidance and constant affection